Every Single Day Each of Us Has The Chance To Over Come Challenge!

Each one of us daily and often even many times each day will be confronted with a problem...
or an issue that may seem over bearing!

Often it is a difficult person most of these are difficult because they are not happy in their own lives...
You have heard it said:  "MISERY LOVES COMPANY!"

Many who are unhappy today whether male or female are divorced.
While some marriages break up because either he or she was involved in drugs...
And the drug user never gives up their habit...

This is not the case for the majority of broken marriages...
Most that deteriorate are because both he & she were in too big of a hurry to get married and did not know each other well enough...

They were so lonely & in a hurry to marry they became unevenly yoked and they found they had too many irreconcilable differences.

Often when you or I have a person in our life who is unreasonable, showing them compassion for their situation even in a business relationship which ought to be "just business"...

But their bitterness and jealousy of you gets in their way of doing for you what they are required to...
Showing them compassion will at times win for you a better working relationship for a while.

But other times doing so just makes things messier and whether it is your landlord, realtor, or maybe your direct boss at your place of employment...

While showing a bit of compassion goes a long way with some folks...
Extending compassionate kindness to some will cause them to drag out everything they are supposed to do anyway pressing for social yak yak yak...

And when you find this...sometimes in some cases when you have a choice it may be better to go take your business somewheres else where they appreciate customers and are not oppressive into ones personal affairs.

But God will always show us the best way around a situation or the best path through it when we take each and every circumstance we face...
Each obstacle that befalls us to HIM in prayer...

Sometimes HE will make the way for us to simply bow out...and walk or ride into the sunset.
We can always not let our obstacles become grave stones...
But with our attitude of approach...
Turn every would be grave stone into a stepping stone of hope!

Anyone Who Insists On Being Vulgar In Their Dress Language or Behavior....Can Expect to Be Caught On Camera and Become The Latest Uncovered Vilan On THe World-Wide Blogs

William & I have been thoroughly amused at the crazy behaviors of those who cut themselves loose...

 

Simply hilariously funny all that we had been folks do in both the Bohnigs and Winn-Dixie parking lots to catch a glimpse of the couple everyone is talking about...

He walks her in and asks for a sample which he blesses and breaks and shares with her.  Then orders either only 2 or 4 slices of low salt turkey or occasionally ham...

with a deli salad and a sack of rolls...unless they bought the rolls the night before.

 

They like to hear my dearest call me:  "My Sweetie-Pie" as he tenderly protectively walks me through the parking lot to our van shielding arrogant male gaukers from approaching me with their hands.

 

But these men & women who wish to have us as friends...they must change how they dress first before we will ever entertain conversation...

Instead of introducing themselves from a natural distance of a few feet away...

They have forced their way by confrontation...

 

Mary Ernst tried bull dozing us over with her shopping cart in the Bohnigs Super-Market and the big giant RED-Headed Roly-Poly always dressed in royal purple...at least one of her garments... has tried backing over me with her metallic colored small car.....more times than I am able to keep tract of....

 

But her venomous attacks come only once a week before the 5PM Vigil Mass!

 

I can understand why she is full of such rage...

She set her self up to be grumpy always by driving a vehicle that which the roof or ceiling is not tall enough for her.

 

She's a big big chunky woman...TALL but her gigantic abdomen weighs her UHGggggggggggggggggggggggggggggg...

Actually dragging her upper body down several inches crunching over her stomach...

 

Honestly....I am surprised she can rise up to or for any occasion at all...

But why she didn't buy herself a taller car...

But frustrates herself even more each time she ever goes out doors.

 

I cannot ever imagine her choosing to walk instead of drive and ride....

 

Soon and very soon....she and the rest...if they change not their aggressive revengeful behavior against us or against any one within our presence they will eventually be caught on EstherStephanada's Camera!

 

And the only mercy they will be shown is to made the "Uncovered Villain on the BLOGS 5, 6, or 10PM NEWS"

 

Cameras ROLL'N

Our Words and Actions Do Matter Always...We Create Our Enviroment Ourselves....So Never Complain to Anyone But Yourself!

Regardless what your circumstances are...

For many things are out of our control.

 

We can accept that which we cannot change while choosing to speak only kind words that do not divide but lift high and heal...

Pure kind words that heal body soul and mind regardless how snoody and grumpy a rough stiff-necked one is to you you cany-can -can stead of returning his our her own jealous hardboiled..carborator chewing vulgarity back.

 

You can simply say as I have to such a prune:  "Sory you feel so bad...hope your better soon!"

But never let such a snot drag you down from the clouds where you have flown upon HIS Holy Wings of fire...

 

Remember every man woman and child was created in the unique image of Almighty God and each one was given the ability to love...for love is what we were created for....and let not those who refuse to receive your love and return it...never let one of these grumpy grump bumps an a log get you down.

 

Tell them to wear blue without being blue..that if you do in spite of their behavior towards you....then they can wear blue without being blue or stewed and can change their grumps to a cheery mood and be included more often any where any time...

 

For a cheerful love giving one without an angry jealous spirit...

Is always more than welcomed but always sought after for their joy & laughter not only instantly fills any room...

But spills out into each one who in turn spills and spreads it in just as many directions an all have much affection for such a one who choose to never be blue nor let any lemon sour-graper

poison their dispostion, but rather simply blesses their day and moves onto meet and greet those who walk in shoes of peace and never folly.

 

As You Walk Through Valleys of Death Your Enemies Will Evaporate Before Your Eyes When You Stand Righteously Forgiving Without Waiting For Others to Apologize

Everyone who does the will of God Our Father obediently without complaint, is like a fruitful tree planted next t HIS stream of living water.

 

One who simply walks by Faith doing only what the Father tells him or her following HIS precise instructions and patterns by surrendering thy heart, thoughts and will...

Cannot take credit for outcomes but must give all Glory to God;

But one extra benefit is is that when whatever does no come out as we thought maybe it would...

 

Since we take no credit for any success of what is good...then what appears to have been flubbed up wrong...
The Lord knew before HE had us begin... how everything we do for HIM will turn out...

We therefore need not be concerned about any of it...as long as we have been obedient it is HIS responsibility to change anything HE wants changed whether HE gives us another instruction, or calls onto another to go where we left off and pick up that yoke that was once ours and send us on another mission that could as usual be impossible for men but for God moving in and though any sheep who belongs to HIS flock...

When HE anoints me & directs me to do something...I try to be immediately obedient and my hands fly faster on these keys than my mind can keep up at times.

So if I took credit for what HE does through me...I would surely shrivel up and die.

For it is HE who is within me...who has already overcome the world of disease and hardships that sin brought into a perfect world....that dispelled or infected what was good and pure which is what sickness and abnormalities from God's original plan and design are...defined.

Keep on smiling in the face of the enemy and he will dissolve and evaporate for you before your eyes!

For HE who is in you is not only in front of you clearing your way...but behind you defending you from your jealous enemies who are crude, rude and desire your end...or death...for anyone living obediently whether studying for HIS Holy Priesthood...or typing merely blogs such as these like I am now...
The the devil actually fears obedient souls more than we could ever fear a mere serpent that God has already declared dead and under our feet as long as we are never silent but HIS Holy Words and Holy Name we proclaim loudly speaking out!

The devil is the biggest coward that ever was....for when he committed the first sin in all creation....God cast him down!

So the only tactic the enemy of God has in his hand is wielding your fears that he observes in you against yourself.

God's Holy Word declares that perfect love casts out all fear.  So when ever you feel afraid f anything...

Ask yourself:  Who do I need to forgive?

For perfect love never holds in bondage of unforgiveness anyone...not forgiving each one who offends you in both a minor or serious way...not merely hurts the relationship between yourself and this person who hurt you....but holding grudges or anger hurts both God and they self.

For offense of any kind holds both you and others in bondage...and only when one forgives even before the accused, accuser, or attacker asks for forgiveness do you or I prevent bondage causing fear to grab onto our hearts.

When we keep our conscience clean through frequent sacramental confessions receiving absolution...
The enemy of God cannot touch us.

And we can actually laugh with our precious Lord each time the enemy of God who controls only hell...though for only a little while longer does he get to wonder and roan searching for souls who have strayed that he may devour.

Soon very soon our trails of trials and challenges will no longer be as daring or filled with as many obstacles to be slain....soon and very soon trials no more for me or for you who belong to God!

Amen Amen Amen and Alleluia!

AUNT JOAN Carroll Cruz, Catholic author, has been called home....has died.

Forwarded conversation
Subject: AUNT JOAN Carroll Cruz, Catholic author, has been called home....has died.
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From: Mrs Stephanie Carroll Gustavson
Date: Sun, Oct 21, 2012 at 7:38 PM

Through out my entire life from memories of my tiniest days....Aunt Joan was the only person I ever knew well who loved tenderly, forgivingly....loved perfectly always. From those youngest days I recall her eyes were always very sad.  She truly suffered much heart ache her entire life...she a true suffering servant

 

Stephanie

 

Forwarded conversation
Subject: AUNT JOAN
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Date: Sat, Oct 20, 2012 at 6:45 PM


Dear Stephanie , We are sorry that we have some sad news. Aunt Joan passed away today Oct.20th at around 3:pm.She had heart surgery on Oct:17 to replace a valve, but it was also found that an artery had to be repaired. She recovered some, but the strain on her   heart was finally too much. We are glad we were able to see her often after we retired. This is very sad for us.  Hope you and William are doing alright .                                                                                              LOVE,MOM                        

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From: Mrs Stephanie Carroll Gustavson
Date: Sun, Oct 21, 2012 at 2:04 PM
To: Betty Carroll

Thank you Mother.

 

No one told us she was going to have surgery.

 

October 17, 2007 was William's tumor surgery.

 

This was exactly how Aunt Elba died.

 

God always takes care of William & I.

 

Love & Prayers,

 

Stephanie

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From: Godfrey Beni Date: Mon, Oct 22, 2012 at 1:47 AM
To: Mrs Stephanie Carroll Gustavson


May her soul, through the mercy of God, rest in eternal peace.
Our true home is in heaven, and Jesus Christ whose return we long for
will come from heaven to save us(Phil 3:20).

On 10/22/12, Mrs Stephanie Carroll Gustavson

 wrote:
> Through out my entire life from memories of my tiniest days....Aunt Joan
> was the only person I ever knew well who loved tenderly,
> forgivingly....loved perfectly always. From those youngest days I recall
> her eyes were always very sad.  She truly suffered much heart ache her
> entire life...she a true suffering servant
>
> Stephanie
>
>
>
> Forwarded conversation
> Subject: AUNT JOAN
> ------------------------
>
> Date: Sat, Oct 20, 2012 at 6:45 PM
> To: EstherStephanada
>
> Dear Stephanie , We are sorry that we have some sad news. Aunt Joan passed
> away today Oct.20th at around 3:pm.She had heart surgery on Oct:17 to
> replace a valve, but it was also found that an artery had to be repaired.
> She recovered some, but the strain on her   heart was finally too much. We
> are glad we were able to see her often after we retired. This is very sad
> for us.  Hope you and William are doing alright .
>
> LOVE,MOM
>
> ----------

We Will Find Our Trails Through Trials Much Easier When WE Choose To Train Our Own Tongue!

Often both the trials that await us and those that chase us are of our own making...

At least we have the power to curb their ability to shake us.

We have not only the ability to choose our words carefully...
We have the responsibility to both chooseour words and speakour words prayerfully.

The one who makes critical words their usual greeting for each one they meet along every street...
Makes their path much rockier than it need be.

For what we sow is what we shall reap not only when we are gardening.
Let us make a purposeful decision right now!

Let us choose not to be silent observers of unneccessary harshness , nor silent observers of abominations!

We can begin a revolution of positive change by actually doing what most folks Mother's long ago taught them.

That is "Kill them with kindness!"

You women out there...never let anyone lump you into a group labelled "Guy's" again.

Simply politely say: "Excuse me friend...I am not a guy...and if the sad truth you find yourself correcting another woman...comfort her by adding...
"Niether are you!  Why do you let yourself sucumb to the world?  Why do you let the devil get a toe hole into your dignity and morality?  You and I are created uniquely in the image and likeness of GOD for GOD and that is why the evil doesn't like us!

Anyone who refuses to address you or I as we insist they do...by our names...are not worthy of any kind of relationship or friendship with us.

It is our responsibilty to choose our friends and aquaintances wisely.  When we allow ourselves to be surrounded by any folks who let themselves be chaff in the wind...

"Going with the flow" ...the path of least resistance in order to not obey GOD in speaking HIS Holy Truth that we not be in position to stand our ground and let the truth knock down whomever shall fall...

We ourselves who have the authority to use The Name Of Jesus will sucumb to and be devoured by the enemy....

For silence coupled with fear and lazyness are the enemy's only weapons!

So friends of GOD out there...never let anyone be an abomination to GOD in how they address yourself our your sister.

GOD calls us each by name...let us do the same and call each person along our trails that all of our challenges lead to triumph!

So let ua all today and always be imitators of Almighty GOD as HE calls us;
Call each one you know and each one you ever meet...by their full and proper name not nicknames...

This will stir inside each one a natural desire to strive to speak and live more purely and respond to our own neighbors more respectfully with dignity and courage!

This is not as difficult as the enemy wants you and I to think....
It only requires a purposeful decision in choosing our words and our words will naturally inspire the same within our hearers.

And a new reveolution of dignified mutual respect will quickly contagiously penetrate our cities from our mouthes, and our children's ...within super markets and shopping malls...school yards and boys and girls clubs...

Making the trials along our trails to triumph not as rocky....but smoother!

We can do this We really Cany can can can!

ONES TRIALS SHALL ALWAYS BE TOUGHER AND ONE MAY NEVER RECOVER.....

Only when one walks and talks and does all things in and through and for the Lord and the Lord alone...

Only when a person is at all times united to Jesus Christ and the Father through the Most Holy Spirit
Shall ones challenges and trials not prevail over him!

When one Loves GOD, and goes to HIM and trrough HIM for all things... That the Lord of HOSTS HIMSELF fights his battles for him & through him...

Then and only then will a mans challenges become Gloriously Triumphant through out his life if and only and as he GIVES GOD all the credit for all things in his life!

HIS OIL AS ALL NOW CAN SEE NOT ONLY HEALS BUT CAN KILL...

When oh men and women too down in Louisiana turn your face to ME FOREVER, hide and harden not your hearts!
Fall to your knees in TRUE REPENTANCE BEFORE ME THE KING OF KINGS and I WHO FORMED THE EARTH, THE SEAS AND ALL WITHIN IT...

I SHALL EVAPORATE MY OIL FROM YOUR GULF WATERS FOR MY MERCY IS GREATER THAN MY WRATH,

HOW LONG HOW LONG WILL IT TAKE FOR YOUTO TURN FROM YOUR LIENG, CHEATING, STEALING, DISHONEST WAYS!

YOU CAN CONTINUE THE WAYS YOU ARE LIVING BY AND YOU SHALL CERTAINLY PERISH...

OR YOU CAN CHOOSE MY BETTER AND BEST PART BY FALLING TO YOUR KNEES AND LET ME TAKE YOUR HEARTS OF STONE AWAY, AND GIVE YOU HEARTS FOR LOVE ALONE!

YOU CANNOT STOP MY OIL of WRATH ON YOUR OWN, NOR CAN YOU PROTECT YOURSELVES WITH BIGGER LEVEES!

ALL YOU NEED IS TO CHOOSE TRUE REPENTANCE & LOVE!  HATE AND CHEAT NO MORE!  TURN AWAY FROM YOUR SIN...

COME TO ME ALL YE WHO ARE WEARY AND I WILL CALM YOUR RIVERS AND SEAS...  AND YOU SHALL HAVE MY PEACE RESTORED!

Amen Amen Amen & Alleluia!